Etiquette on paying for attendants lodging

Hello! I have reviewed several postings and have since found out that it's etiquette to pay for the attendants lodging! I had NO idea. We're having only a Best Man and Maid of Honor. We'll be in Costa Rica and my M.of H. will be staying with her boyfriend for one week. The Best Man will be.... [Read more]

Do we have to saty at the hotel after the wedding

The mother of the bride says that I have to stay downtown at the hotel when I only live 20 minutes away. I have a husband and child. She says that she can stay in the room with the paid daycare attendant and that we are going to the bar after the reception from midnight till 2 am. The wedding.... [Read more]

How do i find out who is paying for wedding attendant's hotel?

I'm traveling from out of town to be an attendant in a friend's wedding. When she was in mine, we paid for her hotel for 4 nights. She has offered to have me stay at her apartment for the first two nights I am there and then when my husband arrives, we will stay at a hotel. I have been assuming.... [Read more]

Hotelrooms

My cousin is getting married in june. In the evening they are having a party in a castle. Since this is also a hotel we called them to book a suite. We first made sure to ask the receptionist if the couple in question had already booked a suite themselves and then asked for a suite for ourselves..... [Read more]

Reception site and hotel in one - help paying?

Hello, I've found a wonderful (perfect) venue to host my wedding ceremony and reception. It is a large B&B that will accommodate a large number of people for an overnight stay - however, it's an all or nothing deal - either I rent the entire place (overnight accommodations for 24) or not. My.... [Read more]